Wednesday, August 12, 2026

ข้าวมันไก่และขนมหวานไทยดั้งเดิม


P came into town for a short three days on a work trip. His schedule was packed but he had an evening free. We had him over for dinner at home. Then we could really chill out, have a drink and chat at will. I just had to clean up the floors and clear the dining table which has been piled high with nonsense. Heh. Scrambled a little to do that. I don't have people over often for meals, if at all, so there hadn't been a need to clear that dining table. :P 

Of course I didn't cook. That would be madness when my schedule is packed out for the month. I ordered chicken rice from the ever-dependable Five Star. That's comfort food for all of us. They had many dishes we could order. Had sambal sotong, omelette and tofu, and broccoli. Added a salted egg pork ribs for a different protein.

P came bearing royal gifts of dessert. Wow! He picked very traditional desserts from a new-to-me brand, Childenutt (ชายณัฐ). He knows I have grandma tastebuds when it comes to Thai desserts — I like them traditional.  He brought the harder and crumbly sampanee (or khanom sampanee / ขนมสัมปันนี) in the shape of a purple flower. (It can be pink, yellow or white too.) The other is honestly my Number 1 favorite traditional dessert — thong ek (ทองเอก), the bright yellow gold leaf, which is a soft wheat flour dumpling with egg yolk.

The brand promised that their products to hold 35% less sugar than the norm. It was indeed true! I love these desserts, but I won't eat them if they're too sweet. It's very hard to hunt down my ideal at the shops. The friends' families make them the way I love. The sampanee and thong ek were freshly made and bought the night before P flew out. They don't keep that well in the fridge, and best eaten now. It must be all savored tonight. So we did. These were such a treat tonight!

Tuesday, August 11, 2026

Decker BBQ at Bukit Timah


Decker Barbecue at Robertson Quay has been around since 2015. Last July, it was acquired by the PSGourmet and Sun Venture. With the injection of funds, they opened a huge 4000sqft second outlet at the old Bukit Timah Fire Station. 

This second outlet has an expanded menu, and is much much bigger. Its pet-friendly al fresco patio has been thought out and made comfortable, replete with overhead retractable canvas shelter, overhead fans, portable fans and such. However, parking sucks. The lots are limited, and there's no nearby parking available. It would be idea for people to walk to and fro. This means that for us, we won't go on weekends and Friday nights. 

That night, we didn't make a reservation. We walked in at the right timing, and got a table immediately. Ordered a platter for one, and added on things to share. There's no way we could finish a platter for two. That would be too much. The grilled meats were great. Sides were good too. Not too salty. Wagyu brisket, chicken thighs, pork sausage, and chicken liver pâté, along with sides of roasted potatoes, salsa, coleslaw and dirty basmati rice. 

The husband had to order the smoked garlic butter pizza, and a portion turkey breast. They do their pizzas (pies) crisp and thin. Had to pack home half of it. Too much carbs lah. The turkey breast was surprisingly delicious. Brined and done easy, it was tender. I'd say, skip the mac and cheese. At its current mix, the cheese ain't fun enough. 

The husband eyed the dino ribs. Next time. 

Monday, August 10, 2026

A Cup of Coffee Solves Everything


I wasn't that keen to read 'Days at the Torunka Café' 「純喫茶ルンカ」(2022) by Satoshi Yagisawa, translated into English by Eric Ozawa and that version was published in late 2025. Then I thought to myself, 'How bad can it be?' Well... ... instant regret. I didn't enjoy this book as much as the author's 'Days at the Morisaki Bookshop' (2009)

These three interconnected stories are about regret, self-worth vs one's identity, positivity, second chances, change, future, the sorts. There isn't a resolution. Whether you like them, is another thing. We simply see people picking up the pieces and getting on with their lives, preferably with a perfect cup of coffee. 

At the end of a tiny alley in Tokyo, Torunka Café that plays Chopin's piano études is run by Isao Tachibana alongside his teenaged daughter Shizuku, and a part-timer 21-year-old Shūichi Okuyama. Shizuku herself is also coping with grief over the loss of her elder sister Sumiré, and the strong emotions of an unrequited first crush on her sister's ex-boyfriend vs the steadfast support of her childhood friend Kōta. That was elaborated in the last story 'A Drop of Love'

The first story 'Sunday Ballerinas' saw Shūichi being enamored with a regular customer 24-yar-old Chinatsu Yukimura. I had no idea where this story was going. It was so meandering that I lost interest in the book promptly. Chinatsu comes in to the cafe once a week, and usually on a Sunday. She folds the napkins into tiny ballerinas. She hides a vulnerability from past trauma and heartbreak. She told Shūichi some odd story about them being acquainted in a past life during the French revolution, as French people of another gender and they were lovers. I had to laugh.

Then we learnt that Chinatsu and Shūichi were acquainted as children, when his father came to visit her mother. The adult parents were lovers. Chinatsu's mother passed away, and she was curious about how Shūichi was doing in Tokyo, and she came to look for him. She wasn't sure how the friendship would turn out. She simply wanted to see him because she's had a terrible childhood and she had felt better when he was around. There was redemption suggested at the end of the story. 

The second story 'The Place Where We Meet Again' saw Hiroyuki Numata meet Ayako, who is the daughter of the woman named Sanae he had dated 30 years ago. Hiro and Sanae had a relationship, but he literally ghosted Sanae and broke up with her, citing his work obligations and ambitions. He later married a shallow gaudy woman who was good for his career, but not good for anything else. Yet she refused to let him divorce her. He became an alcoholic and spiraled. 

Hiro regretted not doing more for Sanae. He used private investigators to track down Sanae, only to learn that she had long passed from cancer. He had randomly hoped to run into her daughter, Ayako. 

That's all it took to lift my spirits so much it was actually a little disconcerting. I felt like I'd found a new reason to stay in the neighborhood. Until I'd spoken with Ayako, I'd spent my time there, unable to get my bearings, feeling like a stranger in a strange land. But once I'd started talking to her, the distance I felt between me and everyone in the neighborhood seemed to go away, and I felt like I was part of things again. More than anything else, that's what made me happy. 

We learnt about Shizuku's pain in the last story 'A Drop of Love'. Her elder sister Sumiré had died ten years ago when she was seventeen. Now that Shizuku's almost seventeen and in her second year at high school, she missed her sister even more. Sumiré had fallen sick and was hospitalized; she died three months later. To cope with grief, her mother now lives away from her and the father. Her mother joined an NGO and now lives in Chiang Mai, Thailand. Every year, at the end of August, on the anniversary of Sumi's death, Shizuku becomes a bundle of nerves and couldn't function. The first year after Sumi's death was the hardest. In this story, we're now at the sixth anniversary.

One afternoon out and about in town, she ran into Kazuhiko Ogino, her sister's ex-boyfriend whom the family lost contact with when the sister died. Shizuku sat down with him to ask why they broke up. She didn't understand what went on between them, except that she was jealous of their closeness and bewildered by how much he cried at Sumiré's funeral. And then, she thought she might have a crush on Ogino! She took Sumi's clothes, shoes and hair clips, and began dressing like Sumi. It took her a long while to decide that she wouldn't do so anymore. She confessed to Ogino that she liked him, but she was rejected. But after that, she felt much lighter. 

Outside the window, the landscape flew by. As hard as it was to believe that after the last several days, my mind was now calm and clear.

But I won't forget that I was in love, however briefly it lasted. Deeply in love. And it's something I'll treasures. Even if the pain returns, it won't be so bad. Someday, I know, I'll fall in love again. And until that day, I'll be building up my confidence. So that when the time comes, whoever it is will see me for who I am.

Readers are offered a peek into these characters' lives, emotions and how they deal with the developments, other people's feelings and such. I don't know if I care for them. Reaching the end of the book didn't make me like them better. 

It isn't an utter waste of time reading it. It's kinda like a window into friends' lives whom we wouldn't know even if they're good friends. Some things are kept aside, kept private, and grief is sometimes not said. I sometimes don't need to know everything about friends. I only want to know if they choose to share. I'm not particularly nosy. And often, depending on one's concept or expectations of friendship, I would likely come across as not caring very much. Whatever it is, it isn't my type of book. 

How and what you make of a cup of coffee, is up to you. In the 'Translator's Note', Eric Ozawa said,

In the book, the café is quite small, with some seats at the counter and a handful of ta-bles, but like the Morisaki Bookshop, it's the center of a community of people for whom it becomes a second home.

Time seems to move differently at the Torunka Café. There's time to savor a cup of coffee, to reminisce, to confess a secret, or to read a book like this one, which celebrates the pleasures of the junkissa, a term that encompasses both those cafés and their preserved quaint charms of the Showa period as well as those distinguished by a devotion to the perfect cup of coffee.