Monday, March 31, 2025

The Husband Turned 50


The husband celebrated his 50th over the weekend with a gig covering Smashing Pumpkins with Porcelina. He wanted to spend the day doing something that he loves. He had asked if the band would mind coming together on this date, and everyone was game for it. Yay! 

Many of the friends wouldn't be in town over this long weekend, but many still were. So to that, we just decided to throw a party anyway. Those who could make it, popped up. It was fantastic to see everyone. It was a good crowd and a great party. Ironically, and to our relief, the husband and I didn't drink that much. He (and the band) had to remain sober; I had door duties and logistics to sort out. I had one glass of whisky, then the glass held iced water all night. I did chug a cold bottle of Asashi at the end of the night. The audience mostly did all the drinking. Heh!

Rehearsals for gigs are always gruelling. No band will not put in that effort. And that effort made by talented musicians will always shine. They sounded awesome, totally doing justice to the Pumpkins' vocals and riffs. Tonight, they did my all-time fav Pumpkins song — 'Tonight, Tonight' (from 'Mellon Collie and the Infinite Sadness' 1996). Wheeeeeeee!

At this point in life, we've said permanent farewells to friends in the same age group who had passed on and never got to turn 50. We're well aware of the pure blessing of being alive and healthy, and seeing friends doing all right too. Those we see, we hold them close. The husband was absolutely touched that people came, danced and had loads of fun. Often, social media interactions don't quite make up for IRL hugs and chats. Thanks for coming out, people!

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